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How to Make IEPs Neuro-Affirming and Student-Led (podcast#241)

Can changing a few words in an IEP change a child’s future? Speech Dude Chris Wenger shares how to reframe support plans to empower neurodivergent kids instead of pushing them to mask. Learn why connection, regulation, and self-advocacy matter more than compliance and how actually to build those skills into your child’s education plan.

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What To Expect In Our Conversation

  • Why IEPs often miss the mark and how to fix them
  • How to replace deficit language with strength-based reframes
  • Why connection and regulation need to come before learning
  • How co-creating goals with kids leads to better outcomes
  • The power of self-advocacy compared to compliance


How to Make IEPs Neuro-Affirming and Student-Led

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About Chris Wenger

Chris also known as Speech Dude, is a high school speech-language pathologist with more than 20 years of experience supporting autistic and neurodivergent youth. As a neurodivergent educator himself, he brings a unique perspective to his work. Chris is also an internationally recognized presenter who shares practical, affirming strategies to improve speech therapy and better support neurodiverse students.

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Our Discussion With Chris Wenger

Elaine Taylor-Klaus
I’m always scanning social media for people who are educated, interesting professionals who know what they’re talking about and are bringing real data and science to the conversation. And so, Chris, welcome. I am thrilled to have you here. Chris is “The Speech Dude,” everyone, to those of you who know him on social. And when I saw you and I saw some of your videos, I really, really was excited to bring you into the conversation. Because I feel like you take concepts of neurodiversity and make them really accessible for people to understand and use and apply in their lives. And to me, that’s what it’s all about. I think we translate medical to parents, right?
Chris Wenger
I think that’s the most important thing-especially with social media-coming in with information, making it fun and relevant, making it easy to understand, and giving some strategies and ways that we can really help so our kids can thrive. And that’s really where I try to drive home that concept: make it digestible, but also make it fun and entertaining. I add a little bit of humor in there, and… what can we do, right? And I think that’s the key. I’m glad you found me.
Elaine Taylor-Klaus
It’s gonna be such a great conversation. I am-I’m thrilled. So, Chris, tell us a little bit about… so I know you go by “The Speech Dude,” but tell us a little bit about how you support parents-what we call parents of complex kids. Kids who struggle with life, learning, behavior, social-emotional-whatever it is-we call them complex. So how do you most support families of complex kids, and how did you come to be doing this?
Chris Wenger
Yeah, I’m gonna actually start there. I started with having my parents be involved in education. So, my mom was more on the administrative side of things. My dad was a PE teacher, and he did some adaptive PE work where he had kids with disabilities in his class. He worked in an all-high-school district, and we were a big baseball family growing up, so he was also the varsity coach.
So my junior year, I was the assistant coach to him at a school called Chaffey High School in Ontario, California. I mention that because he had one of his students-who was autistic and had Down syndrome-help support the team. And I really got along with this kid, and my dad said, “You know what? This is something you should maybe consider pursuing in the future: getting into teaching, but more specifically working with kids with disabilities.”
He said, “The person who helps those who need the most support…”
Chris Wenger
…will be the ones that win the race, always. And so I just took that theme and ran with it. So post-high school, that’s exactly what I did. I went and pursued a career in special education, got my first master’s degree as a teacher-so that’s my foundation. That was back 25 years ago now. So, um, times have changed because I started off with PDF printed files that were IEPs. There was no sending an email to the family to say, “Hey, we need your signature,” or scheduling through digital stuff. It was hard paper.
Elaine Taylor-Klaus
At least it wasn’t the flu-it wasn’t the mimeograph machines. Remember the ones where they would churn with the smell? Oh my gosh, right?
Chris Wenger
Right. Right, exactly. But you know what was good about that? The hard-copy printed version with no technology meant that we were having conversations with families. That meant that when the family said, “You know, I think that this is working for my child, but I don’t know about this particular area in the IEP-can we maybe modify that?” you would see these blue marks.
I tried to-my thing was always-I didn’t want kids to receive their assignments back with just red ink everywhere. I was like, “I don’t like that. Nobody likes that.” So I switched to blue. And the IEP had handwritten marks and notes, and that was cool because it showed we were having trust and connection and collaboration. And that’s what it’s really all about.
So I started writing IEPs-handwritten IEPs and the whole thing-as a teacher. That led me to the next part of my career, which was in 2003, the speech therapist. Which, it’s very rare-still is-to find a male speech therapist. And so, back in 2003, we had a male SLP, and he was calling my class saying, “Hey Chris, can I borrow a couple students for speech time?”
Chris Wenger (continued)
And I was like, “Steve, man, I wanna do what you do,” because you’re calling the students out and having fun, and they love that. When the phone rings they’re like, “Oh, it’s speech time!” And I said, “Would you mind if I shadow you for a day?”
He’s like, “I think this is something you’d love too, because we build conversations, we build connections and friendships, we make it organic.”
And I was like, that’s exactly what I want to do in life. So I went back to school, got a second master’s in communicative disorders, and the rest is history.
That’s where I got “The Speech Dude” from. I’m from California, so “dude” has always been in my lexicon, and “speech” was who I was-that’s what I did for work. That’s what I did outside of work too, because I played in some bands. So speaking in public became a thing too. Maybe that style… it all came full circle to social media. I was just comfortable in front of a camera and speaking.
But also, my line of work for the past 25 years has been working with kids with disabilities. So here I am-Speech Dude. That’s my life.
Elaine Taylor-Klaus
And here you are. So who do you work with most now, as a speech pathologist?
Chris Wenger
Teens. So-autistic teens. And the journey has changed so much. So for the listeners out there-those that have children who might be older-have probably seen the change. Twenty years ago, thirty years ago, my caseload would have maybe two kids with the primary eligibility of autism. It was kind of taboo. You just didn’t really talk about it. Parents-there was so much stigma back in the day. And, well…
Elaine Taylor-Klaus
For a moment of education: in 2013 the regulations changed. So prior to 2013, a provider had to decide-is it ADHD or is it autism, for example? They could only have one. When that changed in 2013, it opened up for a provider to be able to diagnose both, and the cross-pollination, if you will, of both is extremely high. And so it used to be that getting an autism diagnosis was something you would avoid at all costs. Now, an autism diagnosis means you’re actually going to get services. And so a lot has shifted to your point in 20 years.
Chris Wenger
Up to 80%, actually. So that dynamic with the DSM and the inclusion of ADHD being like, “Oh, so those with ADHD can also have a co-occurring condition and eligibility-like a diagnosis.” So now you’re seeing a lot of ADHDs that are also identifying those characteristics of autism and going, “Oh-ADHD… I’m getting the autism-ADHD thing.” And yeah, yeah, absolutely.

To your point, the other thing too is that the DSM-even more currently, the DSM-5 update-the revision from two years ago-included, I believe, a little bit more sensory stuff, which has never been included in the past. And if you really understand the bottom-up processing and the sensory differences within autism, it changes everything. So it’s like, “Oh… so now if we can notice that an autistic individual experiences their world-the sensory environment-so much differently, that’s a whole new opening of criteria as well.”

You know, it’s funny too because there are so many things-like when you really break it down and you look into the DSM-5, it opens up by saying things like “deficits in social communication” as characterized by perseverating on topics and things like that.

Chris Wenger (continued)
But we’re now seeing-hey, autistic characteristics and communication are different. They’re not necessarily deficits. So when you look at the perseveration thing and you understand regulation, and we come in with the understanding that they’re not obsessions-they’re more like passions and areas of focused interest-we’re getting a lot more people to step back from the stigma and understand characteristics, as opposed to what some people would say are “red flags.” I hate that term. They’re not red flags. Let’s use the terms traits or characteristics. That’s much better-and then everybody wins.

But that line of thinking-if we can truly understand the neurology part of it-then we can come in with the right supports and the right services. And that’s really the game changer for everyone.

Where the schools get it wrong-and where they’ve always gotten it wrong, and they currently get it wrong-is seeing and viewing communication from an autistic child as being the wrong way or being a deficit. So what ends up happening is that you end up getting a deficit-based IEP. That’s kind of how the 13 pages are written. So what that does is it creates a situation where you are taking the student and you’re trying to have them perform to fit in with their peers-essentially masking, or essentially creating IEP goals that force them into conversations or social scenarios that they don’t want to be in.

Chris Wenger
It literally inadvertently creates more stress and anxiety, and then they withdraw socially even more. And it’s like-wait a minute. I thought the IEP goals were to go initiate a conversation about a topic that the other person wants to talk about for three to four conversation exchanges. All of that creates more stress, you know?
Elaine Taylor-Klaus
So, and what-there are so many things that come up as I’m hearing you say it, because you’re also… it’s a very solution-oriented approach as opposed to being in the process of what’s going on for this kid. And what I hear you saying is: let’s understand who this kid is, what their traits are, what the gifts are, and maybe what the challenges are-and how they show up-without that deficit base.
Absolutely.
Chris Wenger
It like literally changes everything. So I’ll give you what is pretty common as an example that I’m going to try to recite off the top of my head. So I’m just gonna make this scenario up, but it’s pretty common. I’ve been in over 3,000 IEPs-like, I could tell you every single word on these documents-but this is pretty common.
I’ll get a student from eighth to ninth grade at that transition meeting, so we can prepare them for high school. And in the “present levels” section-what’s the communication development-it usually will say something like this. It’ll say:
“Johnny”-we’ll just make up a name here-

Johnny does not make eye contact in conversation. Johnny tends to perseverate on Minecraft and only likes to talk about Steve’s lava chicken, and he’ll just repeat it all day long until he annoys his peers. He needs to work on theory of mind or perspective-taking. He tends to blurt out in class, and he moves a lot and doesn’t comply with the teacher.

So that… that kind of language we see.

Oh-and it might say something like:

“Doesn’t initiate conversation with peers; only talks about his area of interest; doesn’t engage in back-and-forth reciprocal conversation with three to four conversational turns,” or whatnot.

Elaine Taylor-Klaus
So the problem with that-so what I just heard in that-is all the ways that his performance is what we don’t want. It’s “let’s focus on everything he’s doing that we don’t like.”
Chris Wenger
Exactly. Like: “Let’s take Johnny and make Johnny… not Johnny. Let’s create a whole new person here and then tell him that Johnny is broken.”

Yeah.

And so the thing is-that type of language sets up the goals for the IEP. And what ends up happening is we end up not seeing changes. Because I hear from families:

“We’ve been working on initiating conversation.”

“We’ve been working on back-and-forth conversation.”

“We’ve been working on Johnny trying to get a friend, trying to do well in class.”

And he still doesn’t have any friends. He is still lonely on the weekends. He doesn’t have anybody to call after school. He doesn’t have anybody to play video games with.

And I hear this-and it’s like these goals have been worked on for years and years and years.

So the goals are set up in the IEP to say:
“Johnny needs to make eye contact with the teacher when the teacher’s talking.”
But we know that, in autistic neurology, that can sometimes put the student into fight-or-flight-being forced into making eye contact. Because an autistic person might actually process better by not having to stare somebody in the eyes and look into their soul. Right.

The other thing is-because of the hyper-connected brain…

Chris Wenger
When an autistic brain-the neurology-they’ve done MRI studies on this. When you have a reduction in synapses, right? So it’s this system within the brain where you have a gazillion neurons, and when they’re not pruned… So there’s a reduction of 40% in the autistic brain, right? And so what this means is that there are more synapses-more things being fired back and forth. So the brain becomes
hyperconnected.

That’s why you’ll have a student who can recall facts from specific events from the past really quickly. You’ll have more attention to detail, more pattern recognition, and there are great things that come with that. But that same type of wiring is also what creates the hyper-the brain needs more time to process.

So when a teacher’s lecturing or giving out information, the brain is processing so much information-40% more than the holistic brain, you know, the person who’s not autistic. And so that’s really important to know. And that’s why we have to provide visuals and strategies and accommodations for the IEP. I mention all of that because understanding that type of neurology impacts the…

Chris Wenger (continues)
…conversation, that back-and-forth ping-pong small chit-chat. You’ll hear from many-if not most-of my autistic teens, and you’ll hear late-diagnosed autistic people say: “Hey, back-and-forth conversation… I just don’t love.” And the reason is because the brain is hyperconnected. It’s all surface-level stuff. There’s no in-depth meaning to it.

Versus when you can dive into-when you can info-dump about or share a lot of knowledge about your passion and find connection that way. That brings more of a harmonious life, more calm and peace.

And so-gosh, I just shared a lot of information there-but it’s really important because it really helps our brain… the language in the IEP. So with all that being said, let’s circle back around to: how should that language for that particular student be framed?

Elaine Taylor-Klaus
So I’m gonna use the same-hold on one second. We’re gonna take a quick break and come back and do that. My guest is Chris Wenger, and he has just kind of explained the problem with the IEP system, and now he’s gonna circle back and help us figure out what we can do to do it well. Is that correct?
Chris Wenger
Absolutely. Excellent. So we talked a little bit about the neurology and the deficit-based language that we typically would see for a student, and now I’m gonna talk about how we would reframe it.
So we’re gonna use that same scenario:
Johnny is a student who prefers to process information without being required to make eye contact. Johnny enjoys and has a passion for Minecraft and particularly likes-currently likes-that song “Steve’s Lava Chicken,” and that helps him stay calm and regulated and connected with his peers. When Johnny is grouped with peers who share similar interests, this helps build conversations naturally and organically in class.
Johnny is working on requesting some sensory breaks or movement breaks because he has a lot of energy, and that will help him stay focused and calm and regulated. Johnny’s IEP goals can be framed such as self-advocacy goals-to request, in his preferred way of communicating with the teacher or the paraprofessional, taking breaks and communicating what works for him with processing.
Johnny is also working on perspective-building and understanding why certain people say and do the things they do, to help him navigate the social context of the school.

Like-that right there. I just changed Johnny’s entire IEP and all of the goals from a negative perspective to a positive perspective. Instead of: “What do we not want?” this is a very coach-approach.

Elaine Taylor-Klaus
Right. You shifted it from “no, not that” to “this is what we’re looking for.” This is what it means to look for the incremental progress in Johnny’s behaviors. Is that what I’m hearing?
Chris Wenger
And what we’re doing is we’re not changing Johnny. We’re understanding that Johnny has different wiring. He has different neurology. So what we’re doing is we’re providing two things:

Accommodations-which are sensory or movement breaks, access to visuals in class, advance notice of when he’ll have to speak instead of being voluntarily called on, getting to be put into groups of like-minded or similar-interest individuals. So we’d have accommodations like that. More visuals.

And then we’d also have IEP goals that work for Johnny-that work with who he is-which means developing the skills of understanding his neurology, understanding that he has accommodations and he can advocate for those.

So Johnny would have a goal that might say:

“Johnny will explore a variety of options to meet his needs by requesting accommodations in class.”

“Johnny will self-advocate for the use of noise-canceling headphones and getting notes printed out to help him with processing.”

So that’s what the IEP goals would look like. They would not create a performance-based goal that creates masking, but instead create advocacy-an understanding that because of his difference, the class and the school setting might be challenging, but we are working with Johnny, not against him.

Elaine Taylor-Klaus
So he loves school so Johnny can figure out how he can be the student he wants to be.
Chris Wenger
Yeah, and you know what? All of this stuff is supporting mental health, because what ends up happening is that Johnny’s learning who he is-about identity, about awareness, about confidence, about self-esteem, and about advocacy. All of those kind of line up with each other. And so outside of the school walls, he’s building the skills to seek out support and some help. And that could be in a variety of settings.
It could be going to the dentist’s office and maybe using the dentist app-or Yelp-and reaching out, saying, “Hey, can I use my noise-canceling headphones during the appointment?” Yeah. During my appointment or whatever it might be. You know what I mean? So it sends a rippling effect between all environments, and that’s really how we can help our kids.
Elaine Taylor-Klaus
So, so there are so many questions that are coming up for me, Chris. One is-I’m making an assumption, but I want to ask you to speak to it. You’re speaking specifically about an IEP for kids on the spectrum, and I’m guessing that this is applicable to kids with ADHD, with autism, with other complicating factors or mental health issues. So what you’re suggesting-is this for all neurodiverse kids, or just for kids on the spectrum?
Chris Wenger
For all neurodivergent kids. So let’s say that we have a child with more extensive support needs-more complex needs. Let’s say a student has a primary eligibility of ID, intellectual disability, and then we have the statement that they have Down syndrome. Secondary eligibility might be autism, they could have a learning disability-whatever the extensive supports are.

We’re still coming at it from: What are the things in the environment that are creating the challenge for the student? And how can we help that kid develop the language so they can get the support that’s needed?

Elaine Taylor-Klaus
Can I stop and ask you that question again without an example of Downs or something more severe-but asking actually on a less profound level? Does that make sense?
Chris Wenger
Yeah, yeah, yeah. So if you have a kid with ADHD, the idea would-that would be someone like myself. ADHD tends to have a brain that has difficulty with controlling impulses or with executive functioning, so that might be planning, organizing, initiating.

And so what we could do with the language there-rather than try to “fix,” because what you’ll find out with ADHD is you’ll have all of these binders and organization systems and you’ll get the kid this, try to get all of this organization system, and it’s like five years go by and the parent’s like, “It’s not working.”

So what we would do is come in with understanding the neurology and saying: Okay, what are some things that we can build into the student’s IEP and into their life so they’re seeking and getting support-and using language to understand who they are?

So I’ll give you an example:
In class, if I struggled with turning things in on time or with organizing, that would be something I could work on advocating for myself. I could work on crafting an email or writing it down and having a one-pager for my teacher that says:
“I’m Chris. I love guitar. I’m passionate about listening to Blink-182 and surfing.
I also have some challenges when it comes to staying organized in class, and these are some things that can help me. And I just wanted to let you know upfront.” So now I’m getting that co-dependent support from those in my environment.
Chris Wenger
That’s how my whole relationship is built on-because I have five boys at home. And so my wife knows how my brain works. And so it’s constantly her validating me but also reminding me, like:

“Hey Chris, I know this area can be challenging. When you’re cooking, you tend to forget to turn off the burner. So I’m just gonna remind you now to turn on the clock on the microwave so that way you’re reminded to turn it off-because this is a serious thing.”

Yeah, yeah.
This can happen with me giving the kids baths and just-life. Really, really important stuff. But I understand my brain and how it works, and because of that, I have to create systems and ways to have people in my system work with me so that things can run smoothly. And that’s how it is with our kids in school too.
Elaine Taylor-Klaus
It, it is. And what really strikes me about what you’re saying is that, you know, part of what happens with a lot of these kids is that we start by giving them a system and we don’t take the time to get their buy-in, their engagement-them to say, “I want to advocate for my education.” Right.
And then they get in trouble for not talking to their teacher, but that wasn’t part of their… you know, it wasn’t their idea, it wasn’t their agenda.
So something you’re saying here that I wanna remind our listeners is that the systems and the structures are essential once you know what it is you’re trying to achieve. But if you haven’t decided to try to achieve it, the system may or may not be the right system for you.
Chris Wenger
Right? Absolutely. Yeah. And to that point, I think that’s such a huge and important piece. It’s the co-creation. So you could even have that in the IEP goals. I’ll have that in some of my IEP goals: Student will develop a plan or work on understanding X, Y, and Z by co-creating a plan with the therapist or the teacher.
Because now it’s like that Dr. Ross Green collaborative approach, where you’re sitting down and you’re working with-coming up with things that will work for them. Yes. Honestly, that… I’m gonna try to stay on topic here, but I’m diving off a little bit.
But even when we have students who, you know, get sent out of class for doing something that didn’t work out-like they get in trouble, get sent to the dean-I still come in with that approach: “Okay, I know this happened. Well, let’s sit down, let’s work on some solutions or some strategies or a plan that works for you. What are your thoughts?”

And then they give input, and then that works so much better because they have autonomy, they have control of the situation, and then they’re more driven to do the thing. And then we revisit that on a weekly basis. I’m like, “Okay, is your plan working out?”

Elaine Taylor-Klaus
So I wish we could talk forever, ’cause there are so many more things I wanna ask. Um, and I really appreciate that this-what we’ve really been talking about-is how do we set our kids up for success with accommodations and support at school?
And really what you’re saying is: we involve them in the process, we co-create it with them. We-you know-what we teach as well is similar to Ross Green; it’s a collaborative problem-solving model. So it’s about bringing them into it. This is their education. Let’s help them advocate for themselves. So really appreciate that. Yeah, no, absolutely.

Before we wrap the conversation, I just wanna let everybody know: if you are loving what you’re hearing-and I’m sure that you are-you can find Chris at Speech Dude, wherever you find social media or websites, or Facebook, YouTube, Instagram, TikTok, websitespeechdude.com.

You go to @speechdude and you will find a wealth of entertainment that is also information, that is also applicable to yourself and your life and your kids. So I strongly encourage you to find out more, like him on whatever social media you happen to prefer, and learn in a really engaging, entertaining way how to meet your kids where they are.

Set an environment that sets them up for success from a positive lens instead of a deficit-based one. That’s really what I’m hearing.

What I-and the other thing I wanna say, Chris, that I love about what you’re saying-is that we hear parents say all the time, “But I have to use the deficit model because I have to get the accommodations.” And what you’re saying is: You can still say yes, there’s a disability here, but let’s frame it in language that’s positive and affirming so that we can help our kids take ownership of themselves instead of feeling bad about themselves.

Chris Wenger
Absolutely. Yeah, you could still get the support, the services, the IEP, by talking about what the challenges are. You don’t have to come in from a deficit-based lens, but you can come in by saying, “This is what is making it challenging. So what are the accommodations, modifications, goals, and services to make these challenges a little less challenging, so that the students can go to school with a smile on their face?”
Elaine Taylor-Klaus
Beautiful. Love it. Alright, so we do need to wrap the conversation. Is there anything that we haven’t talked about that you wanna make sure you share with our community? Or is there something we have talked about that you kind of wanna double click on?
Chris Wenger
Gosh, circling back around, just one other thing. ‘Cause this question comes at me a lot, which is like through emails of: how do I work with you or how do I-do you do consults? I don’t because it would be too hard. So I created a directory. It’s global. If you’re looking for a neuro-affirming therapist-whether it’s an occupational therapist or it’s a speech therapist that knows this line of work-it’s called neuroaffirm.com, and you can type in your zip code if you’re looking for a specific support. Um, there’s a search bar there too. So like, let’s say they just said about BDA-

Yeah.

They could just go to neuroaffirm.com.

Yep.

Elaine Taylor-Klaus
I love that. Thank you. I am excited to share that. Yeah. Um, alright. Before we wrap this conversation, you got a favorite quote or motto that’s come up for you today since we’ve been in this conversation?
Chris Wenger
Oh God, we just made this thing happen naturally. I would say that this discussion for all neurodivergent kids: connection and regulation must happen before any learning takes place. Yes. And that will solve every-
I shouldn’t say solve everything, but if you can come from that understanding, this whole discussion we had, uh, really it comes to fruition.
Elaine Taylor-Klaus
To those of you listening, you know now why I invited Chris to join me because our model is all about a relationship-first model for collaborative problem solving. And so “connection and regulation must happen before any learning takes place” is foundational and I totally love it and appreciate it.
Chris Wenger
Absolutely. Thank you so much for having me on.
Elaine Taylor-Klaus
Thank you for being here. Thank you for the work you’re doing, for the positivity you bring to the space. It’s just a delight and I really appreciate it. Yeah, and I’m gonna say not just the positivity-you are doing a beautiful job of blending positivity with really, really essential information. You know, we talk a lot about information is not enough. It’s what you do with the information that really matters. And I love what you’re doing as you’re helping people reframe the information in a way that’s really applicable and usable.
Chris Wenger
So thank you for-that’s the way to do it. I kind of see the world as a waterbed, so if I can be the one jumping on the waterbed and then the rippling effect hits everybody in a healthy, positive way, that’s how we make change.
Love it.
Elaine Taylor-Klaus
Beautiful. Thank you. Thank you, Chris, for being here. I really appreciate it. Yes. For those of you listening, take a moment and ask yourself: Chris and I just had this very detailed conversation about IEPs and how to reframe the language in them and what’s going on when brains need more time to process and the reduction of synapses-like all this stuff.

What are you taking away from this? What’s your insight or your aha from this conversation? What’s the one kind of gem or the glimmer that you’re bringing forward with you into your week this week, and how do you wanna bring it forward into your week? What’s one way that you might apply what you’ve taken from today to the life you’re bringing to your family and your kids?

As always, everybody, thanks for what you’re doing for yourself and for your kids. At the end of the day, your role, your engagement-it makes an enormous difference. Take care everybody. See you on the next one.

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