Don’t Read That! Why the Media Stokes Parents’ Worst Fears
There is so much "news" about ADHD these days. And often, the media stokes parents' worst ADHD fears by deliberately increasing this fear. So, today, I'm offering two tips.
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Tip 1: For the Media
Please – stop publishing fake news that can be damaging to children. Stop giving airtime to “experts” who deny the existence of a bio-neurological condition or to propagandists who want to demonize a form of medical treatment. Just stop it.
The evidence of ADHD is apparent in an extraordinary amount of research and painfully evident in the lives of families coping with it. Stop spreading mistruths, which would be silly if they weren’t so hurtful.
Stop saying ADHD is just too much sugar, food coloring, “bad” parenting, or overindulged kids. The truth is that ADHD is real, and reporting that is less than comprehensive or accurate is tremendously detrimental for families. It creates more ADHD fears that are unnecessary and unfounded.
Tip 2: For Parents
Beware of sensational headlines!
When the media is reporting on ADHD, it's not coming from a place of compassion – that's not really its job. Too often, it's a business looking for ways to create tension and sell newspapers (or the digital equivalent). We have to work hard not to take news stories personally – or comments on Facebook or at the grocery store – because that undermines what we’re doing for our kids.
So-called documentaries on the 'dangers' of ADHD medication are another avenue that has been coming up lately. Check the facts before you freak out. Properly treated ADHD actually reduces the risk of drug abuse and addiction. Well-informed teens who are responsible with their medication should not be stigmatized because unscrupulous students are taking advantage of the situation.
It's important that you become well-informed to be a medical advocate for your child. As for learning what you need to know about ADHD from the media? Be a wise consumer.
